At home I find that I work best when I have a schedule.
Having work to keep my mind occupied, knowing when and where and what I am
going to eat, even being able to plan out leisure activities in advance go a
long way to helping me feel more comfortable and productive. In Taiwan, this
proved to be very challenging. Though I had class and research, they only
occupied a few waking hours each day. With the language barrier in place, it
was difficult to find my footing and a routine to settle into. I had to change
my approach and think critically to make the most of my situation.
It can be
difficult to establish a whole new routine, especially in a completely foreign place.
Without being able to talk with locals or read signs and menus, one can never
know what might establish itself as a new favorite place to eat, relax, or
study. I occasionally became very nervous not knowing where to go or what to do
in my spare time since I had so little to start from. Without any frame of
reference, I was flying blind. But I did manage to reconcile my unfamiliar
surroundings with my desire for structure.
Exploration
became part of my routine. A little time was set aside each day to go walking
some place I hadn’t before, or to try a place to eat that was new to me.
Slowly, my surroundings became more familiar to me. I was able to know where to
go if I was in certain moods instead of blindly wandering around. And at the
same time, the notion of trying new things was a part of the schedule I craved.
Just by designating some time set aside to it, walking around town felt less
frightening and confusing, and more like something I was doing because I wanted
to.
In a new
country it can feel like there is a lot of pressure to try new things. And it
can be easy to get frustrated with yourself it feels like you are not making
the most of your time. I certainly felt that concern frequently. What helped me
to put that aside, though, was remembering that it was a matter of taking it in
at my own pace. While it can feel scary to be in such an unfamiliar place with
so little frame of reference to approach it from, and it might seem more
frightening still that you might ‘miss out’ on the experience by being afraid,
it will be that much more enjoyable to pursue at your own comfort level. Yes,
it is important to explore and experience new things, but it is just as
important to do that in a way that feels right. It is fine if you are eager to
see all there is to see and take in the new culture, but it is just as fine to
set aside a little time each day if that makes you more comfortable. It was
definitely a challenge I faced overseas, but it was one I was able to overcome
by thinking critically and changing my approach.
---Jonathan Sebastian
